Social Media Navel Gazing

bellybuttonFirst, a definition for anyone who’s never heard that term:

noun: navel-gazing
  1. self-indulgent or excessive contemplation of oneself or a single issue, at the expense of a wider view.
    “he lapsed into his customary navel-gazing”

Social media is a great place to talk about yourself and what you are doing. Your friends, family, and colleagues that aren’t in your daily life can get a quick snapshot of how things are going for you and what you’ve been up to. But this, like all things in life can be over done and it’s really easy to slip into what I like to call “bullhorn mode”.

When you’re using a bullhorn, you’re not listening. You are only broadcasting, dominating others and are only putting information out there in the world. When you’re on your bullhorn, you’re not taking time to listen and read, you’re not interacting with others, and there is no community in what you’re doing. It’s so easy to skim, click like a few times, write something about what you did to day, and move on.
Recently, I read an article on not liking things on Facebook. I think this is an important concept, because it makes it harder for you to just take the easy way. It’s not that it’s bad to like, but it’s like the social media version of a non-verbal head bob when you agree with someone. You feel like you’ve done your social duty, and nothing more is required of you. From the time that I stopped liking things my engagement with other talent and with my friends and family has increased many times over, and my Facebook feed has cleaned up, just like in the article.
What do you gain from engagement? Well, that’s the neat thing, you really don’t know. What you put out online stays there forever, and you never know how far your positive statements, your good actions, and your happy thoughts might reach. (The same is true in reverse, of course.) I can’t count the number of connections I’ve gained simply from the fact that I made a post some time, somewhere, or someone mentioned my name online.
So put down your bullhorn. Get your nose out of your navel. Engage, discuss, debate, encourage, uplift, and mention. See how far you can really reach, and see how much good you can do out there.

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